STALKER? OBSESSED? POSSESSIVE...

Got any?

When do we say that you've got a stalker?

When someone is prowling or sneaking on you with unlawful intentions, whoaaaa! Beware! You've got a STALKER!

I'm not a beauty titlist,

not even an International artist.

I'm not a politician,

nor a pretty queen of England!

But hallelujah! I've got a STaLKer!

A stalker has one main purpose: someone who wishes CONTROL... He could be a stranger, but he could also be someone whom you know and is doing things against your will.

The following are some of the characteristics of a stalker:

1. Jealous

Oh! We don't have any intimacy...

2. Narcissistic

But what have I done? Why be conceited?

3. OBSESSIVE and compulsive

It's about the past, the root cause of it all why there's discomfort, but is it my fault?

4. Falls "instantly" in love

Oh! guard your heart!

5. Manipulative

Only one special person can manipulate me, no one else (raised eyebrows)

6. Unable to take "no" for an answer

Then let me answer, "never"

7. Deceptive

Very true! Such a good actor!

8. Unable to cope with rejection

Everyone gets rejected, not only you, not only men to their girlfriends, all of us gets rejected sometimes.

9. Difficulty distinguishing between fantasy and reality

Stop fantasizing!

10. MAYBE above average intelligence

(wow! but my stalker is not that intelligent!)

I maybe rude! But some of you out there knows how it feels being deprived of your own privacy, of your freedom, and a peaceful environment. They say that most stalkers have above average intelligence... then do act as one!

If you, reading this, is also a stalker to someone, wake up! There are people out there who could love you back, who could show you the importance you long have wanted, who could treat you nicely and love you in reality. Don't waste your time and your precious love for someone who doesn't even know that you exist, and never even treat you like someone very dear to them.

It's a whole, big, wide world after all...